Why Does My Kid Do That? Understanding Repetitive Behaviors

You may have noticed that your child with autism engaging in repetitive behaviors and not understood why. Some of these common behaviors can ranged from clapping, poking oneself, shaking hands in the air, or some other behavior that is completely unique to your unique child. Let’s break down these behaviors and what they mean.

The Rundown On Repetitive Behaviors

Repetitive behaviors, or as the fancy behavior therapists call it, “stereotypies,” are pretty common for kids on the spectrum. It’s like their brain’s way of saying, “Hey, this feels good.” 

Think of it as their personal comfort zone, their happy place. It’s their way of self-soothing, finding focus, or just plain enjoying the sensation.

It’s important to remember, these aren’t tantrums or attempts to be annoying. It’s how their brains work. 

So, cut ’em some slack, okay?

Why Do They Do It?

Imagine your brain is a radio station. Sometimes, it plays your favorite song on repeat, right? Well, for kids with autism, the radio might be stuck on one song for a while. Repetitive stuff helps them:

• Chill out: It’s like a personal calming station.
• Focus: It helps them tune out distractions and concentrate.
• Communicate: Sometimes, it’s their way of saying, “Hey, I’m feeling this way.”

Helping Your Kid

So, how do you handle it? Well, first off, don’t freak out. Your kid isn’t trying to annoy you. They’re just trying to navigate their world the best they can. Here are some tips:

• Chill zone: Create a calm spot where they can do their thing without interruptions. It’s their safe haven.
• Find alternatives: Sometimes, offering a different way to get that same feeling can help. Like, if they love the feeling of spinning, maybe try a swing.
• Talk to the pros: Therapists or behavior experts can give you some extra tips. They’ve got the superpowers when it comes to understanding this stuff.

You’re Not Alone in This

Being a parent to a kid with autism is like being part of a super exclusive club. 

You’re in good company. There are tons of other parents out there going through the same stuff. Connecting with them can be a lifesaver.

• Find your tribe: Look for local support groups or online communities. Sharing stories and advice can be super helpful.
• Don’t be afraid to ask for help: Whether it’s family, friends, or professionals, don’t be shy about asking for support.
• Take care of yourself: Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Make time for self-care, even if it’s just a few minutes a day.

And remember, every kid is different. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Trust your gut, celebrate small wins, and don’t be too hard on yourself. 

You’re doing an amazing job!

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